There comes a day when you get a call and your best friend tells you that he or she is getting married. At this moment your heart seems to be overflowing and one thing is certain: a big celebration is coming up and you definitely won't want to miss it. But there's something else that springs to mind when you receive the invitation: what to give?

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There comes a day when you get a call and your best friend tells you that he or she is getting married. At this moment your heart seems to be overflowing and one thing is certain: a big celebration is coming up and you definitely won't want to miss it. But there's something else that springs to mind when you receive the invitation: what to give?

And the faster the date approaches, the fewer ideas there are of what to give as gifts. It's not like you gave a stunning tableware last time and you don't want to take a back seat to that gift this time. But you could also make the selection of a special gift your own brand, so better focus on your own creativity and make a personal gift with meaning than just looking for a special gift.

It's a bit like when a friend gives you a stunning tea set and everyone is waiting to see what the next gift will be like. However, if that's not the right way for you personally to choose a gift, perhaps the list below can help you. Here I have compiled some ideas for you that I found while surfing the internet and that others have told me about.

An album: . but not a normal and empty one. But an album full of memories and stories about you, your friends and your family. These memories will be remembered for sure and at the same time it is a starting point for a new phase of life. You can leave half of the album blank so the recipient can fill it up for years to come.

An adrenaline rush: Parachuting down from a great height, taking a diving course - these are all experiences that you will never forget in your life. So the ultimate gift!

A work of art: It's always a good idea to give something that will stand the test of time. You just have to know the bride's tastes or you can go for something neutral, or something that blends in well with the environment and is easily transportable. Pictures or small, not so heavy statues are particularly suitable for this. Your gift should also reflect some of your personality, so it's not just a gift, but a lasting memory.

A Polaroid camera: . and ideally fully charged. This allows the guests to take spontaneous and funny snapshots of the celebration and the photos are a nice reminder of the day.

Accessories for the day: You should give this gift in advance. If you are very close to the bride and groom, you can give them the rings, the bouquet, the cake or the cocktail reception.

A day in the SPA: Before or after, depending on the recipient's taste. A day in the SPA gives relaxation and helps to relax physically and mentally before the party. Great for switching off and breaking out of the stress of preparation!

Custom shoes: The idea seems very creative to me because it is durable and useful at the same time. Imagine spending your wedding party in super comfortable shoes that are custom made to your exact needs and fit your feet like a second skin. Maybe add a second pair of flats for the bride.

Pre-Honeymoon: Buying on the final trip of the newlyweds is a bad idea. A few days on a paradisiacal beach, which also conjures up the perfect bronze tone on the skin.

Traditional: Dishes, cutlery, household appliances etc. are always needed. But it's better to ask discreetly what is really needed. Who would want five toasters.

Dom Pérignon: An expensive champagne to be opened on the first wedding anniversary or other post-wedding event. This is luxury!

Wedding List: Wedding lists are an easy way to know what the bride and groom need or want. It is not the extraordinary that is required here, but the practical. And they're always the best option when the bride and groom aren't part of your inner circle of friends.

Collectibles: If she collects dolls and he collects old figures, then this is the opportunity to give away a very special one. You can also attach a card to the collectible (without damaging it, of course).

A photo session: This can, for example, be what is now called "trash the dress" and is the complete opposite of the usual wedding photos. The photo session promises to be super fun. However, the bridal couple should know that the dress and wedding suit usually do not survive the photo session.

Always remember that if you are given the opportunity to give a gift, always give with all your heart. Enjoy it! Feel it! That's the best motivation,

You should only give money if this was expressly requested by the bridal couple. But money is always very impersonal. If you want to support the future spouses financially, fund them for a very special moment, such as part of their honeymoon or a honeymoon dinner.

Be creative! Tips from mia-mai buttons.